Solace Ojotule: The Woman and Her Career

Solace Ojotule: The Woman and Her Career

I grew up to know and discover that my Dad took care of the considerable number of tabs. Despite the fact that he didn’t remain somewhat longer for me to know all the more yet I grew up to comprehend that he took care of all the house tabs. From power, to nourishment, to dispensing cash for my morning meal in school.

I comprehend that my Dad didn’t permit my Mum to work. My Mum will consistently relate how he would state “what number of nourishment are we eating”. He permitted her to deal with local and family errands while he worked and gave every one of our needs.

My Mum became weary of this grouping and chose to begin an exchange when my Dad voyaged. My Dad after returning blew up with my Mum for beginning an exchange. He revealed to her he doesn’t need his children to endure. My Mum demanded and proceeded with her exchange that earned her a little salary.

It didn’t hesitate, a shady day broke, my Dad voyaged and stayed away forever. The world which we lived in changed totally. Amazing! Things changed so quick. You recall the enduring my Dad didn’t need his youngsters to experience! Well! His youngsters experienced hellfire that was more than what he needed to forestall.

My Mum didn’t have an occupation. She began from the scratch. Growing up had a great deal of exceptional stories attached to it. That which I censure my Dad for.

I’m particularly amazed that even right now, guardians in certain societies despite everything feed the more youthful ones that a lady makes some stoppage memories attached to her vocation. I caught my cousin rhyme severally that a lady’s instruction finishes in the kitchen. You don’t need to be astounded, that is the thing that a few guardians despite everything feed their young men.

A lady can similarly adjust her profession and her home the manner in which the man does.

At the point when you need to confine your significant other’s vocation to household tasks, I surmise you would need to really think about it.

To other Men, ladies can get a vocation yet it ought to be restricted. They can work yet it ought as far as possible. To some others, their authority positions ought to be constrained to associates and indecencies.

I might want you to realize that ladies have loads of potential. Permit them to fly! Try not to limit them. Permit them to amplify their possibilities. At the point when they merit the position, don’t deny them for sexual orientation reasons.Women are fit.

My name is Solace Ojotule and I am supporting for men to urge their ladies to flourish in their vocation

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About the Writer:

Okeyi Ojotule Comfort is an essayist under the Pseudonym Solace Ojotule. She is an author who focuses her works on tending to sexual orientation issues, and ladies strengthening. She established an activity which can contribute towards diminishing imbalance against ladies in a man centric culture. TELL IT TO THE GIRL CHILD INITIATIVE; an activity that targets sharpening youthful auxiliary school understudies on requirement for sexual orientation uniformity and ladies strengthening. An Initiative she would like to extend as a NGO that will end up being an emotionally supportive network to distraught ladies and young ladies. Ojotule is a youthful alumni of Theater Arts from Kogi State University who would like to investigate more chances.

Yewande Jinadu

Yewande Jinadu is the Founder of CareerLife Nigeria(, a Certified HR Professional and an Employability coach. CareerLife Nigeria is a social initiative aimed at reducing unemployment by providing people with the right career related information and Coaching. Yewande is passionate about People Development, Recruitment, Employability and Career Coaching. Through personal coaching, published articles and speaking engagements, she has helped hundreds of young professionals become more employable and gain employment. You can reach out to her by sending a mail to: and follow her on Twitter and Instagram: @careerlifeng

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